What You Really Need to Buy for Your First Baby

Becoming a parent for the first time is exciting and a little overwhelming. Suddenly your social feeds are full of “must-have” lists and shiny gadgets, all promising to make life easier. Before you know it, you’re standing in the baby aisle wondering if you truly need a wipe warmer, a nappy bin that talks, or 17 different swaddles.

Here’s the truth: babies need far less than the marketing suggests. Here’s what you really need to buy for your first baby.

1. Somewhere Safe to Sleep

Forget elaborate bassinets with bells and whistles. A simple, safe crib, bassinet, or co-sleeper is all you need. Make sure it has a firm mattress and fitted sheet, no bumpers, pillows, or extras. Baby sleep really is about safety and simplicity.

2. A Reliable Car Seat

If you drive, this is non-negotiable. Invest in a good-quality, properly fitted infant car seat before the baby arrives. It’s not only a legal requirement, it’s peace of mind every time you get in the car.

3. Nappies & Wipes

Newborns go through a lot of nappies. Stock up on a few packs of newborn size, but don’t overbuy as babies grow quickly. Add fragrance-free wipes (or soft reusable cloths if you prefer eco-friendly), and you’re set.

4. Simple Clothes

Forget the frilly outfits and fancy newborn shoes. What you’ll actually reach for daily are soft cotton onesies, sleepsuits with zippers (life-changing at 3 a.m.), vests, and a few hats and socks. Comfort is key - for both baby and parents wrestling with poppers at midnight.

5. Feeding Essentials

If you’re breastfeeding, a few nursing bras, pads, and a good pillow can be helpful. If you’re bottle-feeding, you’ll need bottles, teats, and formula (your midwife or doctor can guide you). Don’t feel pressured to buy every gadget - sterilisers, warmers, and fancy pumps are nice-to-haves, not must-haves.

6. A Baby Carrier or Pram

Choose what fits your lifestyle. If you’re in and out of cars, a lightweight stroller might be better. If you love walking or using public transport, a supportive carrier can be a lifesaver. Many parents find they use both at different times.

7. Blankets & Muslins

Muslin cloths are the unsung heroes of parenthood. Burping, cleaning up spills, makeshift shade - you’ll use them daily. Add a couple of soft blankets for warmth and cuddles, and you’re good to go.

8. Bath Basics

You don’t need a mini spa. A small baby bath or even just a clean sink will do. Add a mild baby wash, a soft towel, and you’re sorted.

What You Don’t Really Need (But Everyone Tells You To Buy)

• Nappy disposal systems (a bin with a lid works fine).

• Bottle warmers (hot water in a jug does the job).

• Fancy newborn shoes (they’ll just fall off).

• Too many toys (you are their favourite entertainment in the early months).

Babies need love, safety, milk, and warmth - not a mountain of gadgets. When in doubt, keep it simple. You’ll discover along the way what works for your family, and you can always add extras later. The best thing you can give your baby isn’t bought—it’s your time, comfort, and cuddles.